This question took me a little bit of thinking, but I really
enjoyed picking my brain on some of the characteristics and behaviors that lead
me to label someone unattractive as my romantic partner. Someone who feels like
they cannot be honest or communicate is the two biggest unattractive traits to
me. I feel like if you cannot be honest to someone you just met, then you
probably are dishonest about a lot of things.
In our book it says that, Steve Duck feels that attraction is
really a process of elimination. I do agree. When we are getting to know someone
and we are only attracted to the physical we are just waiting for the parts of
them we don’t like. As soon as someone
shows me something I don’t like early on in the dating stage I will cut them
off.
I have DEFINITELY eliminated
someone by using a sociological or pre-interaction cue only to reconsider them
based on interaction and cognitive cues. I think we all make
these reasons why we can’t date someone only to find out they are exactly your match.
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