I honestly do not think it is an easy task to not judge
others. I can always try and say I will give someone a chance, but that doesn’t
mean I have not made my own opinion on someone already before getting to know
them. I think everyone is judgmental in a sense. For example, when I walk into
a interview I am already being judged. I have already been judged by my time management
and my appearance from the minuet I walk in the door.
I think the only way to make our judgments fairer would be
to not take that judgment and place it over the person’s head. What I mean by
that is that we should give them a chance and let them show us themselves
before we confirm or deny our judgment on them. It is the only fair way to let
your judgment be wrong or right. I know that even when I do judge someone I
have to give them the benefit of the doubt and let them show me who they are. I
have always been a person not to listen to the he/she say just because it could
definitely be another’s judgment.
You are right on the point that you are being judged the second you walk in to the room filled with other people. I think that we all do that same kind of judging, sometimes even without noticing it in ourselves. I also think it is possible to try not to judge, but one has to be very open minded to what another person will say or do.
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